As a positive mindset speaker myself, I am surrounded by a network of fellow speakers. I recently caught up with a speaker friend of mine over some drinks. He hasn’t been doing well since the pandemic started. Most of his gigs dried up, and he was slow to pivot to virtual programs. During our meeting, he complained about pretty much everything under the sun – the COVID situation, the unwillingness of the clients to pay, the stock market, the lack of government assistance and even about his kids who make too much noise at home!
While some people are born positive and optimistic, most tend to focus on negativity. It is easy to fall into a pit of complaint, frustration, fear and anger daily. Positivity, on the other hand, requires some practice.
Start by noticing some good points in your day, however tiny they may be. Be conscious when it happens. I like to say “Thank you, thank you, thank you” when I notice these small points to recall them more easily. It’s also aligned with the Law of Attraction – more good things come your way if you appreciate the ones you already have.
Try to find the silver lining to every cloud. Perhaps you failed an exam. Well, at least you know that you need to study harder or change your strategy. Got cheated by someone? Now you know how to be more careful!
Try doing these things every day, little by little. But if you need a helping hand to help you realize these good things that are already in front of you, you can always attend an event with a positive mindset speaker. A positive mindset speaker can give you enlightening insights, boost your motivation, and even help you realize that positivity is already in your hands — you just have to reach out and grab it.
Start training your mind to regularly find positivity before the big clouds come. Simple daily practices of noticing good things goes a long way in developing your overall mental toughness.
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